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Dear Gran'ma Moses,

Sometimes I feel like i'm locked up inside.
I know that sounds weird, but what I mean is that I feel like I cant say what I want to say, or do what I think I should be doing. 
I have spoken to some of my friends and family about this, some of them say that I  should free up myself, say whats on my mind, and do whatever it is I feel I should be doing (providing it is good for me),
but when i've started exercising this, they are some of the first to complain about me speaking my mind.
It seems I should speak my mind...but not to them personally.
I tried to help someone on the streets once (standing up for what is right, human rights) and I ended up arrested!
This has made me feel like I don't really want to 'not be liked' because of speaking my mind, especially by my family and friends.
And I don't want to do certain things if I'm going to end up with a criminal record. (which I didnt get, as the po-po dropped the so-called case)
Even tho I have gone back to my old ways of 'keeping quiet', and my peeps are happy with the old me, and theres been no arrests since that time, but now...
I feel rubbish. Not rubbish, but not real, not really me. Or who im supposed to grow into.

Can you tell me how I can be true to myself, my real feelings and convictions while still keeping my family and friends o.k with me.
And also without getting arrested.

Bless up,

Anon. Hackney

P.S I hope you dont mind the 'Moses' thing, I just like what you put up here, you remind me of Grandma Moses. Not saying your old and ting. sorry, Respect.

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The Kayz on 01 April 2011 22:57
Blessings Anon from Hackney, I hope you don't mind me putting your e-mail up here, but I figured there might be someone else with your same situation that would appreciate a look in. Firstly, family is a beautiful thing, and true friends are great treasures to have, however, you will not agree all the time. This is not a bad thing, it just shows you are individuals with your own thoughts and view points. We only have one life to live that we know of, don't you think you owe it to yourself and the world to be the real you? There is no one like you anywhere on the planet. There may be people with a few similar traits... but theres only 1 YOU! Whats the point of toning it down, squeezing it in or pacifying your magic to suit someone else? I think you'll feel less 'rubbish' when you step into, or as you say mature into your true self. This doesn't mean not to consider others and their feelings, but you cant restrict yourself. I think you will find that your family and friends will have a new found respect for you also, provided you don't ever loose your manners and love for them. Those that can't get with it are not worth worrying over as it's most likely they wish to stump your growth to keep you in a menial position that allows them to take advantage of you. On the police matter... all I can say is the society we live in today has many people living upside down. Good is bad, Bad is good... as you said you were standing up for human rights, I will not say that you were wrong (even if you were arrested) i've heard some horror stories regarding the police. What I will say is carry on standing up for human rights, we need many, many, many more like you on the face of this planet, just be very careful of the things you say to the police and the manner in which you interact with them. Sometimes it's not what you do/say, it's the way you do/say it that counts. Be smart. Blossom and bloom into the being the Creator crafted you to be, The rest can take a ticket and get in line. I hope this has been of help to you, and don't hesitate to write in again for anything. Blessings my child, The Kayz
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